ahsun: Has been a busy week....nevertheless....weekend are supposed to relax....slowly and one by one my assigned tasks and readings are clear....felt really wonderful....hopefully as the work piles up....or rather i clear them before they do....i can make it all the way to the end....belief and constant action are impt...and also setting goals for myself...to achieve those tasks....conquer them and target bigger fishes....heehee....
Sat 30/8: Skipped work again....haha....went to play soccer with my good old poly mates and sec sch mates....it's always fun to play with them again....though the squard is small....but i know...with my friends....things are like the same....like last time how we used to organise and scheduled to play every saturday morning @ 639 BB court....it's almost a homeground to called for us le....i will miss the place if it ever gets demolished....sad....anyway....we enjoyed the game and the usual suspects were there....nic,munsang,jianyong,ck,law,mr bean,me,and some of the other guys lor....well...we really need new people to come play soccer with us....people are getting busy and soccer is not really for them le....had lunch with mun sang and mr bean @ 848 the usual duck rice stall....after that went home.....
Already decided to study with yan @ emily le....then the call came....we're meeting 230 at macDonald (drive-in)....i find it a good place to study as first thing...air-con,good environment(power 98 radio), food+drinks, tables and chairs....ok lar....but power plug only got two....so need to camp there till early campers/customers were there hogging the power point before we took over....luckily prepared 3 pin plug as i know all of us using notebooks...studied till around 8pm....before deciding to eat out....we chance upon the hongkong cafe beside the macDonald and decided to try that.....looks nice....serves good dim sum....also mini-steamboat....alot of food there....recommended for those going high tea or dim sum....good place to chit chat or gathering/ celebrate birthday....haha....feels great to be with frenz....after study....have a meal...chat over the meal....hopefully i have more chances in future....but....haiz....
Sunday 31/8: Well today was a lazy day....and "didn't slept that well" day....have been hearing the radio's music throughout the night.....CLASS 95....argh.....den when i got up....was told to take sis's psp to repair....motherboard spoilt...kaoz....den mum wanna go buy 4D and check out some electronics stuff....so went with her....didn't know....market shopping is a huge big knowledge...u need to market long enough to know which store sells the best batteries, best and cheap toothbrush....better services....i guess....it's old customer that keeps going back the same stores ba...and discounts given as well....my mum is a old time market auntie i would say....she knows everything in the market....if going to chong pang market...i definately will consult her first....haha....den bought some necessities and stuffs....
After that went home....mug the whole day....finish some notes making and assignments....asked my colleague to print some notes for me den she called around 6+ to meet her at northpoint to collect my notes....after collecting i bump into lawrence and desmond at 700+ there near desmond house....den he was saying v bored and no one to go out with....he also suggested bowling which i thought why not....so rina.edwin,desmond,law,me,ck were there....haha....long time nv bowl liaoz...i know tmr morning my right hand will definately "suan" de....sianz...but i made a breakthough today....my highest score was : "154"!!! finally i broke 150 limit le....i must gun for 170 next time....should refine my way of throwing the ball....humph....we also played some mini competition during the session and me,ck,des lost a meal while rina,law,edwin lost a drinks treat.....overall was fun and enjoyable....i laughed till my jaws are aching now....haha....idiot des so funny and lawrence also....they really old but kids @ heart....it's always fun to go out with poly frenz really....hopefully we can meet up real soon....haha...gtg slp liaoz....take care everyone.....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Sunday, August 31, 2008
Saturday, August 30, 2008
Busy Saturday.....
ahsun: Woo....suddenly thought of an idea for business......that's.....doing a study cyber cafe for students....mainly or those preferbly with labtops and notebooks so that they can find a place nearby their house to study.....the place must have alot of power plugs aircon,drinks,toilet,good seats/tables....spacious enough....good lighting....quiet environment.....sells some finger food like my favourite hotdog bread, burgers, fries, chicken wings, bubble tea and nuggets etc....
Charges will be upon entry the internet access timing, (not possible to charge accordingly to time usage as some will stay quite long), drinks ordered,foods. Extra charges for playing pool maybe or table tennis will be good....those activities which can be played indoor de.... Toilet is a must have....maybe can install water cooler as well....but customer must order drinks from our cafe....arbo earn sai ah....haha....
Objective of the cafe is to allow students/working adults to find a place to study under all the perfect conditions for reading and doing their work....Broadband services or rather WIFI is a must-have as mainly target those with notebooks de.....Students can form their study grps and gather with frenz to come together....membership will also be available and thus members enjoy 10% off total bill....on birthday week or month will special promo....haha....cool right....
Talks on making good use of the study tips and softskills will also be held in seperate rooms for those seminars targeting problematic students or students with difficulties in learning or studying effectively....things like speed reading.....reading for key words...mind maps....time management.....motivational workshops...are all good for students....
Another location for the cafe will be the rooftop....in land scarce singapore....this might be feasible....but of cos...the open area will have glass tentage.....somehow like greenhouse of those farms....it'll be quite cool to study.....haha....at night u can even use telescope to star gaze....
I;m all ready to start this wonderful business....any interested parties keen to find out more how we can make this a next big thing in singapore??? leave yr name,hp at the dialog box on the right asap.....i'm waiting....hahaha....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Charges will be upon entry the internet access timing, (not possible to charge accordingly to time usage as some will stay quite long), drinks ordered,foods. Extra charges for playing pool maybe or table tennis will be good....those activities which can be played indoor de.... Toilet is a must have....maybe can install water cooler as well....but customer must order drinks from our cafe....arbo earn sai ah....haha....
Objective of the cafe is to allow students/working adults to find a place to study under all the perfect conditions for reading and doing their work....Broadband services or rather WIFI is a must-have as mainly target those with notebooks de.....Students can form their study grps and gather with frenz to come together....membership will also be available and thus members enjoy 10% off total bill....on birthday week or month will special promo....haha....cool right....
Talks on making good use of the study tips and softskills will also be held in seperate rooms for those seminars targeting problematic students or students with difficulties in learning or studying effectively....things like speed reading.....reading for key words...mind maps....time management.....motivational workshops...are all good for students....
Another location for the cafe will be the rooftop....in land scarce singapore....this might be feasible....but of cos...the open area will have glass tentage.....somehow like greenhouse of those farms....it'll be quite cool to study.....haha....at night u can even use telescope to star gaze....
I;m all ready to start this wonderful business....any interested parties keen to find out more how we can make this a next big thing in singapore??? leave yr name,hp at the dialog box on the right asap.....i'm waiting....hahaha....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Friday, August 29, 2008
jus some thoughts....
ahsun: Sometimes i just wonder....is change a good thing? People tends to live in the past....live in their good old memories...but do they understand that real time is ticking away slowly as they're still living in their past tense? What if you grab hold of the chance now but you forget about past memories? Does that means the past is of less importance and no significance already? hmmm....so really feelings will change, impression of the people will change....no matter how long or short u've known that person....the fact is: PEOPLE DO CHANGE...even if they don't, the environment they're in is constantly changing and when an enviroment changes, people attitudes, speech and actions changes as well....not to say hobbies....habits....pet phrases....face...hair....dress outfit....EVERYTHING CHANGES!!!!.... But fast adapatation is impt....to get used to the ever-changing world...to keep up with the pace....with the world....So we need to look @ what the world is doing....to keep up with the world's pace....to remain competitive....in singapore...competition is everywhere....
Just like what the guys(Ws,Law,Ck) were toking about....singapore is turning into a crowded area...with all the foreign talents and immigrants...it's not that we don't welcome them....but they're here to vie with study places, jobs, places to stay, almost everything....isn't that stressful enough for us to handle besides worrying how we need $$$ and jobs plus homes to survive yet another day in singapore? Is living in singapore getting harder and harder already? I almost can see these people everyday....everywhere...arn't the government concerned with singpaore losing our sense of Singaporean feel....with so many mixed cultures and people...Singapore is turning Rojak.... And also to mention the trains....we're like squeezing everyday....and everyone brings the ugly and unhappy faces to work...(who sets the time to work so early also an idiot) that not to mention ERP are driving people up the MRT and getting more n more crowded than before if all of u ever noticed....one key things to do now is to start planning for places to migrate....if i have the $$ and family...i will go to probably thailand...and be a KING there...haha...(anyway i'm going there nx month)
Well....thoughts can be wild and difficult to control as well....as long as we persists and stay firm in what we believe in.....success will be ours eventually.....ever if u fail.....u can still be glad that at least you tried....the worst failure is u let it fail without even attempting to do it.....that kind of attitude is unacceptable to me personally as i feel that trying is impt....action gets things done basically....Talk without action is just NATO (NO ACTION, TALK ONLY)....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Just like what the guys(Ws,Law,Ck) were toking about....singapore is turning into a crowded area...with all the foreign talents and immigrants...it's not that we don't welcome them....but they're here to vie with study places, jobs, places to stay, almost everything....isn't that stressful enough for us to handle besides worrying how we need $$$ and jobs plus homes to survive yet another day in singapore? Is living in singapore getting harder and harder already? I almost can see these people everyday....everywhere...arn't the government concerned with singpaore losing our sense of Singaporean feel....with so many mixed cultures and people...Singapore is turning Rojak.... And also to mention the trains....we're like squeezing everyday....and everyone brings the ugly and unhappy faces to work...(who sets the time to work so early also an idiot) that not to mention ERP are driving people up the MRT and getting more n more crowded than before if all of u ever noticed....one key things to do now is to start planning for places to migrate....if i have the $$ and family...i will go to probably thailand...and be a KING there...haha...(anyway i'm going there nx month)
Well....thoughts can be wild and difficult to control as well....as long as we persists and stay firm in what we believe in.....success will be ours eventually.....ever if u fail.....u can still be glad that at least you tried....the worst failure is u let it fail without even attempting to do it.....that kind of attitude is unacceptable to me personally as i feel that trying is impt....action gets things done basically....Talk without action is just NATO (NO ACTION, TALK ONLY)....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Week 3 into Study....
ahsun: I can say....i love some modules while others are aliens to me....like operating system....that lecturer dunno in his own world or what....kept toking and asking questions only he himself will answer and *raises up his own hands....really werido man....anyway....there are also modules like using NetBeans to create those 3-tier program and got client and server....hopefully i can create personalize o le sending systems...so that when i send file no need use msn....i heard 100MB can send ard 5mins....cool....haha....need to get more pointers and codes from my frenz....
Things are ok....but need to do more readings and revision....so far...assignments are flooding in....week in week out there's things to do...readings...assignment and library are my best frenz now....not forgetting MacDonald and Burger King....they are always there when i need them to find a place to study...i find that studying with frenz can be good and bad....good in the sense....when u go toilet...or need clarification....things will be easier....and also....u cna tend to relax at times when u studied too long....prolonged studies will not do any good to the eyes....so i target around 50mins break 5 mins....think it's quite a good habit....also sometimes with frenz attention span will tend to be not that focused...but if u're studying alone....firstly u have to guard yr own stuffs....secondly...time seems to pass v slowly...and also...quite lonely somemore....haha...so i still prefer to study with frenz ba....*i'm not anti-social one*
But i dun have any frenz who like to study will ask me out de lei....well....maybe i portrait that kind of image like...."ok...dun come jio me out...i like to study alone..." sorry....I'M NOT ok....i love to study in groups....even though it might be different topics...and modules...it beats studying alone seriously...haiz....with my wednesday almost....gone....i think...i have to learn how to love the school's central library more....camp there more....most likely....alone ba...
Why is University life so lonely and boring?? Am i supposed to initiate to join CCAs , events and activities to get myself involved....seeing some of my frenz are TOO INVOLVED in their activities....i really must salute them...time management is perfect and motivation plus discipline is there....i dun think i can...maybe in the past....but now...i'm just a lazy bum....maybe i need something to knock some sense into me....*at least i realised it...i'm not hopeless right...
Well...maybe that's a life of a NUS SOC student ba....but i would like a change of life....maybe enrich myself a little bit....for example....social work..like joining the youth expedition programme....organised by singapore social community to help those unfortunate in singapore and overseas....i saw one of my fren friendster profile and found out he went vietnam to build library for the sch....sounds fun....and good way to train my management/communication skills....i would raise up both hands to get an opportunity to go over and help them....(*those who know me knows that i'm a super HELPFUL guy ok....)
Maybe's that's life....when u're down...people will be there to help u and when otherwise...u will need to stretch your helping hand to keep them from the cold....shine sunlight on them....that's the way the world should be...i help u....u help me back....haha....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Things are ok....but need to do more readings and revision....so far...assignments are flooding in....week in week out there's things to do...readings...assignment and library are my best frenz now....not forgetting MacDonald and Burger King....they are always there when i need them to find a place to study...i find that studying with frenz can be good and bad....good in the sense....when u go toilet...or need clarification....things will be easier....and also....u cna tend to relax at times when u studied too long....prolonged studies will not do any good to the eyes....so i target around 50mins break 5 mins....think it's quite a good habit....also sometimes with frenz attention span will tend to be not that focused...but if u're studying alone....firstly u have to guard yr own stuffs....secondly...time seems to pass v slowly...and also...quite lonely somemore....haha...so i still prefer to study with frenz ba....*i'm not anti-social one*
But i dun have any frenz who like to study will ask me out de lei....well....maybe i portrait that kind of image like...."ok...dun come jio me out...i like to study alone..." sorry....I'M NOT ok....i love to study in groups....even though it might be different topics...and modules...it beats studying alone seriously...haiz....with my wednesday almost....gone....i think...i have to learn how to love the school's central library more....camp there more....most likely....alone ba...
Why is University life so lonely and boring?? Am i supposed to initiate to join CCAs , events and activities to get myself involved....seeing some of my frenz are TOO INVOLVED in their activities....i really must salute them...time management is perfect and motivation plus discipline is there....i dun think i can...maybe in the past....but now...i'm just a lazy bum....maybe i need something to knock some sense into me....*at least i realised it...i'm not hopeless right...
Well...maybe that's a life of a NUS SOC student ba....but i would like a change of life....maybe enrich myself a little bit....for example....social work..like joining the youth expedition programme....organised by singapore social community to help those unfortunate in singapore and overseas....i saw one of my fren friendster profile and found out he went vietnam to build library for the sch....sounds fun....and good way to train my management/communication skills....i would raise up both hands to get an opportunity to go over and help them....(*those who know me knows that i'm a super HELPFUL guy ok....)
Maybe's that's life....when u're down...people will be there to help u and when otherwise...u will need to stretch your helping hand to keep them from the cold....shine sunlight on them....that's the way the world should be...i help u....u help me back....haha....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Wednesday, August 27, 2008
Sometimes i Wonder....
ahsun: Ya... i wonder whether i do have the "da yee ma" period....feeling so moody....things just isn't going smoothly for me....sianz....applied for tutorial all never kena...tat's ok le....den i appeal the tutorial not assigned to me....somemore kill my off day....idiot....i never knew why people in sch hated the module/tutorial bidding system....now i do....and i will be the number one anti-fan club if there's one....firstly....the system works by not first-come-first-served basis but heng suay....ok....so i'm suay la....bid 4 modules tutorial plus lab...all never kena....wat can be worse than that....ok....two modules settled...den left 2...even though tutorial balloting period over le...anyhow assign me modules which i dun have classes de....really asshole lor.....hate it...i gonna give it negative feedback....kaoz....just feel....things not going right lor....sianzzz......hopefully any1 will be kind enough to swap classes with me lor....i need break day pls!!!! just.....feeling so down.....i think got one song to describe my feeling...DOWN....by JJ Lin....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Sunday, August 24, 2008
some plans....Dream Cars....waseh...
ahsun: Yeah...Finally I've Managed to BOOK MY FINAL THEORY Liaoz......finally....kaoz....the date....will be 16th October....not too bad....quite fast....i must pass it and start my practical lessons lor....too much time wasted le...i should catch up now or else....i can never fulfil my dreams of driving my own car le...without a proper license...nah....i can do it...heehee....
Travelling around singapore, you will always see people driving their BMWs, MercedeZ, Lexus, Mazda Rx8, those nice cool cars....so i give my top ten choices of cars if i want to buy them, order sequence in rank of preferences....here goes:
Toyota Mark X && Mazda Rx 8
Lexus GS 250 && BMW 7 Series
Porsche 911 && Toyota Axio
Nissan Cefiro && Mini Cooper S Cabriolet
Audi TT && Honda Civic
*Photos taken from sgCarmart.com.sg....nice website for car enthusiats to browse for cars....thanks for the great website....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Travelling around singapore, you will always see people driving their BMWs, MercedeZ, Lexus, Mazda Rx8, those nice cool cars....so i give my top ten choices of cars if i want to buy them, order sequence in rank of preferences....here goes:
Toyota Mark X && Mazda Rx 8
Lexus GS 250 && BMW 7 Series
Porsche 911 && Toyota Axio
Nissan Cefiro && Mini Cooper S Cabriolet
Audi TT && Honda Civic
*Photos taken from sgCarmart.com.sg....nice website for car enthusiats to browse for cars....thanks for the great website....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Saturday, August 23, 2008
Tutorials......headaches....
ahsun: as seen from the title....you can know....the tutorials have been quite a headache....just like what 4D buyers always say...."tio chiak bo tio lui"....same result as my balloting last week....out of 5....tio 1 only....so sad....and i even loan my fren the labtop to ballot same modules all same....he got all he wants....unfair man.....when one's down....life tried to bring u even down....tat's my opinion....well...u wouldn't succeed....i've been through worse...in ns....i guess....the challenges or setback outside of NS are just peanuts...just think positive BoonSun....nothing can stands in your way if u have a plan....
Therefore...i took action....i email all the prof and the person in charge....luckily more or less settled the modules....left service science module tutorial....i prayed hard and also wish i get the friday slot....i will be very happy le....i find that i hardly smile lately....or laugh out loud lately....feel so isn't BOONSUN.....people who knows me surely commented on my laughter....like what my pri sch frenz, sec sch frenz, poly mates, working colleagues...all says that my laughter is fast...and weird....izzit? maybe the person who gave out the laughter doesn't thinks so ba....
Spoken to a fren recently....she said about changing the closet....actually i have this thought as well....but....capital not there....i can say around 70% of my warerobe clothes...i dun wear it liaoz....garung guni man reading this post...pls come and take them....i seriously dunno why i have them in there....arbo my closet can be vvvvvv SPACIOUS de....haha....
Today i read about a paricular blog post from my frenz's fren's fren blog....haha...den this lady went to......JAPAN--ICHIBAN!!! Super nice pictures....throughout the trip she took alot of photos to feed my eyes....can't stop taking eyes off it...the scenary....the places....culture....people....(the gal also not bad looking la...haha)....mostly on the japan places....i wish i could go also....my next target after bangkok....save up for JAPAN!!!! ICHIBAN Neh....haha....who's with me???
At Times....i dunno what am i thinking....does it happens to everyone or only myself??? Things could be simpler but i like to complicate them....i dunno whether it's my "inner self" at work or....sometimes i do think i have split personality....i cna be very happy and joyful at one minute....looks particularly bored and angry the other....hmmm....maybe i should find out more about myself....i feel that i still dunno myself well...handle my emotions well enough....before i can learnt to understand others....ok....soul searching time.....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Therefore...i took action....i email all the prof and the person in charge....luckily more or less settled the modules....left service science module tutorial....i prayed hard and also wish i get the friday slot....i will be very happy le....i find that i hardly smile lately....or laugh out loud lately....feel so isn't BOONSUN.....people who knows me surely commented on my laughter....like what my pri sch frenz, sec sch frenz, poly mates, working colleagues...all says that my laughter is fast...and weird....izzit? maybe the person who gave out the laughter doesn't thinks so ba....
Spoken to a fren recently....she said about changing the closet....actually i have this thought as well....but....capital not there....i can say around 70% of my warerobe clothes...i dun wear it liaoz....garung guni man reading this post...pls come and take them....i seriously dunno why i have them in there....arbo my closet can be vvvvvv SPACIOUS de....haha....
Today i read about a paricular blog post from my frenz's fren's fren blog....haha...den this lady went to......JAPAN--ICHIBAN!!! Super nice pictures....throughout the trip she took alot of photos to feed my eyes....can't stop taking eyes off it...the scenary....the places....culture....people....(the gal also not bad looking la...haha)....mostly on the japan places....i wish i could go also....my next target after bangkok....save up for JAPAN!!!! ICHIBAN Neh....haha....who's with me???
At Times....i dunno what am i thinking....does it happens to everyone or only myself??? Things could be simpler but i like to complicate them....i dunno whether it's my "inner self" at work or....sometimes i do think i have split personality....i cna be very happy and joyful at one minute....looks particularly bored and angry the other....hmmm....maybe i should find out more about myself....i feel that i still dunno myself well...handle my emotions well enough....before i can learnt to understand others....ok....soul searching time.....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Thursday, August 21, 2008
Sky Dining....with Yan...Happy Birthday!!!
Mount Faber Sky Dining with yan....
ahsun: Personally....i have always been afraid of high buildings....high locations...just the mere thoughts of it can makes my palm sweaty....feets sweaty....whole body shake....this is term as acrophobia....sometimes....when the lifts descend too fast....the feeling is....horrifying i would term it as....i've been afraid of heights since young....maybe due to the fact i've lived in 2nd for all of my life....rollercoasters.....ferris wheel....pirate ships....DHL hot air balloon....is all a NONO for me....in the past....but i have proved myself wrong....i went for SKY DINING on 19th of August....which is the Birthday of Yan.....we spend like 2.5 hrs in the air....and it was....so HIGH i could ever imagine....haha....BUT.....i'm glad i conquered it.....initially was still scared of it....but...since i'm already there....(and paid already..)...so....i gathered all the courage i could...and sit in the cable car....i'm glad i did...it wasn't as scary when u knew someone was there with you....thanks yan....haha....glad u liked it....becos it has been her dream ever since i've knew her....feels great to have fulfil this dream for her....i had a enjoyable and happy evening in the air as well....but one thing about the cable car ride is.....never go on a weekday....you don't know how to come down....felt so sorry to make yan walk down with me....it must have been straining on yr heels....*paiseh.... i vowed to go again....next time driving up the hills....humph.... :)
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
my recent updates.....
ahsun: 
13th august: Cousins Steamboat @ Chinatown
Look @ joyce Vs ahsun Joanne & ahsun
derbie & ahsun Usually we dun accept interviews....haha
derbie & ahsun Usually we dun accept interviews....haha
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Tuesday, August 19, 2008
20th August 2008 20:08
ahsun: it's a great day today....it's 20th august 2008.....tonight 8pm and 8 minutes will be the once in a lifetime timing with the digital clock goes 20:08:2008 20:08...i guess most of the people out there will be finding ways and special means to mark this historical timing in our life....let's all enjoy this moment and wish all a joyous day plus lots of happiness ok..... :)
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Sunday, August 17, 2008
Some of the goals i set for myself this year...
ahsun:
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
To Start my Driving Practical Lesson Booking
To Learn Beginner Guitar Lessons (NUS or Music School)
To learn about stock markets, investing, target on Forex Market and terms
To buy iPhone before Christmas 2008
To Jog at least twice per week and Soccer once a week
To start life afresh....as ahsun....JIAYOU!!!
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Saturday, August 16, 2008
Old neighbours Supper....
ahsun: Was watching TV show when my neighbour Long jiajia(The Unbeatables Long Ting Guang Daugther starred by Zoe Tay) sms me to go for supper...feeling bored and just finish one of my readings....i agreed....and we decided on the prata along sembawang road near drive in macDonald...initially just wanna have a plain and egg prata....but jiaX2 wanna eat mutarbak....well....it was huge....so we just shared that lor....usually she will feel hungry after a run/jogging session at N7 park near YJC....den she jio me out for supper lor....
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
We have known each other since pri sch ba....cos last time we used to play in the void deck...those usual games: hide-and-seek,"alibomb, soccer, block catching(this is the best and exciting), red indians, zero point(seldom i think) and some board games and card games....usually will go to hanbin's house(another neighbour living on top of jiaX2) to play....those were the days man.....haha....
JiaJia was a nus student from school of biz and currently working in the DFS @ Orchard....though busy work she has....she stills makes it a point to go for a jog or run as long working hours can really bring a person's health to the downside i'm sure....so we started to tok about what interests and courses she had learnt....den one of the sports she took facinates me--scuba diving....
she said that she had took the beginner course and went for a dive once....as she has asthmatic problems...the doctor didn't issue a letter of approval for her....but she went anyway(at her own risk) to take a look @ the wonderful world of the underwater....some of the marine lifes which she saw includes NEMO....prawns...schools and schools of fishes...stingray...seriously....i'm interested to take up scuba diving as well now....haha....hopefully safra got courses on that which i can attend....though not a very good swimmer....but i know...with determination....any form of defences is nothing to me.....
She also mentioned the dangers of the underwater as the pressure differences and needs lots of safety guidelines followed and training hrs de....haha....imagine going out to the sea at night/or 3/4 am in the morning....stars filled in the night all over the skies of the diving venue...u can feel as though u could touch the stars ( really as what she describe...) it's wonderful and magical feeling....the only starry skies i've seen is in tekong while in the outfield...we have tents setup in the open...and the skies....was beautifully painted with stars all over it...........hopefully i can experienced that...so....SCUBA DIVING anyone??爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Meaningful Quotes....
ahsun: Wow...dig back some of my own stuffs....found some meaningful quotes.....well everyone needs them at some point of the time in their life for encouragement and motivation....here goes....some of the few which i like the most....
Life is like a marathon....u will never have smooth boat sailing and also
will need to endure thru hardships and tests on yr life which you have
to think of ways to beat them and complete the marathon.
Therefore, always plan and plan ahead of time.
We're only YOUNG ONCE.!!!!
If you're not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're not doing anything very innovative -W. Allen
If you fail to plan, then you're planning to fail.
Everyone needs a shark in their life to keep us active and taste better.
Do or do not, there is no try
爱拼才会赢，不拼不出名。。。
忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空。。。
These are just some quotes i have....do feel free to leave any comments for the quotes which you think is meaningful for ya.....thanks... :)
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Life is like a marathon....u will never have smooth boat sailing and also
will need to endure thru hardships and tests on yr life which you have
to think of ways to beat them and complete the marathon.
Therefore, always plan and plan ahead of time.
We're only YOUNG ONCE.!!!!
If you're not failing every now and again, it's a sign you're not doing anything very innovative -W. Allen
If you fail to plan, then you're planning to fail.
Everyone needs a shark in their life to keep us active and taste better.
Do or do not, there is no try
爱拼才会赢，不拼不出名。。。
忍一时风平浪静，退一步海阔天空。。。
These are just some quotes i have....do feel free to leave any comments for the quotes which you think is meaningful for ya.....thanks... :)
爱情不管两个人有多远，真心相爱的人终究会遇见。。。
Friday, August 15, 2008
It might be useful....trust me....
Key Elements of A Relationship, Do We Possess Them OurselvesRelationship problem: An indepth and though-provoking article, to look deep inside ourselves to see if we possess the elements that we are looking for in a relationship. If we want certain qualities in a relationship, we need to begin with ourselves.
We all know what we need and want out of a loving, healthy relationship. There may be a slight variance; however, there are some basic solid principles that stand up to create relationship guidelines. It has occurred to me, that perhaps the reason it is so difficult for people to find a long-term, meaningful and satisfying relationship is that we are asking for things that we cannot even give to ourselves. If we expect another person to follow these "guidelines" and fit into the mold of what we conceive of as a loving partner, shouldn’t we begin by having a fabulous relationship with ourselves?
Let’s look at five of the basic requirements of what should be in place for a relationship to take off and possibly lead to marriage. Honestly, respect, loyalty, physical attraction, and a fun loving enthusiastic personality. Let’s breakdown these five characteristics and see where it leads us.
Honesty: perhaps one of the most important elements of a trusting and loving relationship. If you are in a relationship with a person who does not possess a high standard of honesty, you will never be able to fully trust them. When in a relationship, we should be able to completely and unequivocally believe everything that our partner tells us. If a person lies, you mind as well be having a fake and meaningless conversation. Are you even honest with yourself? When you’re out clothes shopping and you have acquired more than a handful of clothes, do you tell yourself that it’s alright to add the bill to your credit card and that you deserve to splurge, (despite that fact that your way over your head in debt)? Are you in out of relationships and in each instance you tell yourself that the other person was at complete fault, that you had absolutely no contributing factors for any of the breakups that you’ve endured? Do you sometimes find yourself yelling at a loved one and you tell yourself that you had every right to make them feel horrible? If any of these apply to you, you are not even honest with yourself. How can you expect the person of your next relationship to be honest to you?
Respect: a word that calls for attention. No one in their right mind would be happy if someone disrespected them. How many of you have spent a night of drinking with friends during the week, woke up the next day with a splitting headache and wanted to or did call into work sick? Did you then tell yourself that you are just fine, you do not drink too much and you have everything under control? When it’s late at night, you’re starving, and about to reach into the fridge for a snack, do you tell yourself that it’s not a big deal if you eat half that pint of ice cream, even though you are on a diet for health reasons? As you take a deep drag off of your cigarette, do you tell yourself that you’ll quit "someday" , that you’re just fine for now and cancer is something that you only need to think about in the future? If any of these apply to you then you do not have complete respect for yourself. And once again, how can you expect a person in a relationship to have show respect?
Loyalty: A key element in any relationship. If we don’t have loyalty from another person, we can not truly feel safe in the relationship. How many of you have worked for a company and declared your loyalty to that company and then gave your two-weeks-notice when a position opened up elsewhere that paid more money? How many of you have never cheated on another person? By this, cheating will be defined by kissing another, have a secret meeting for lunch or dinner, phone calls, or yes, even sex, while in a relationship with anyone. If any of these apply to you, you have not displayed loyalty. And now you are asking for it from someone else?
Physical attraction: A needed component of a healthy relationship. We have instilled in us certain needs that make us attracted or not attracted to another person. If we are in a relationship, we certainly want to feel a high attraction to the other person, which leads to a great sex life and a general feeling of compatibility. What is your perception of yourself? When you glance in a mirror, do you think about the wrinkles you see? When you’re getting dressed, do you try on ten different outfits because you feel that the first nine made you look fat? Do you grimace at the thought of parading around the beach in a bikini because you think that everyone in the world should look "model perfect"? No one can look like a model, except for models! Even then, if you knew the makeup, hair stylists and airbrushing that was involved you would understand that they do not even look like themselves in "real life". If any of the above applies to you, you do not have a good self-image and/or you have low self-esteem. If you are not even attracted to yourself, do you think it’s fair to expect your partner in the relationship to be great looking and be attracted to you? They look at clues that you exude, ie: self-confidence and it helps gauge their opinions of your looks. Start appreciating the unique person that you are.
Lastly, a fun loving, enthusiastic personality. No one in a relationship wants to spend a large amount of time with someone who is boring, dull and unable be fun companions. Do you dread waking up in the morning because you hate your job? Alternatively, do you love your career and concentrate on it so much, leaving very little time for fun in your life? Do you run through your chores at home complaining about the never-ending mess on the floor, laundry that never seems to go away and dishes that seem to appear out of nowhere? Do you go through the food store as fast as possible, no smile on your face and a "get out of my way "expression? If you spend most of your life annoyed at things and you don’t take time out to appreciate life, how can you be a fun partner in a relationship and at the same time expect the other person to be one? Life’s is far from perfect, but to be someone’s "special" love, you need to slow the heck down and realize that having a bad outlook on life is going to get you nowhere.
Honesty, loyalty, respect, physical attraction, and a great personality: do you want these elements in a perspective relationship? If so, ask yourself a very important question. If you cannot have a good relationship with yourself, how can you expect to find one with another person? Visit:
We all know what we need and want out of a loving, healthy relationship. There may be a slight variance; however, there are some basic solid principles that stand up to create relationship guidelines. It has occurred to me, that perhaps the reason it is so difficult for people to find a long-term, meaningful and satisfying relationship is that we are asking for things that we cannot even give to ourselves. If we expect another person to follow these "guidelines" and fit into the mold of what we conceive of as a loving partner, shouldn’t we begin by having a fabulous relationship with ourselves?
Let’s look at five of the basic requirements of what should be in place for a relationship to take off and possibly lead to marriage. Honestly, respect, loyalty, physical attraction, and a fun loving enthusiastic personality. Let’s breakdown these five characteristics and see where it leads us.
Honesty: perhaps one of the most important elements of a trusting and loving relationship. If you are in a relationship with a person who does not possess a high standard of honesty, you will never be able to fully trust them. When in a relationship, we should be able to completely and unequivocally believe everything that our partner tells us. If a person lies, you mind as well be having a fake and meaningless conversation. Are you even honest with yourself? When you’re out clothes shopping and you have acquired more than a handful of clothes, do you tell yourself that it’s alright to add the bill to your credit card and that you deserve to splurge, (despite that fact that your way over your head in debt)? Are you in out of relationships and in each instance you tell yourself that the other person was at complete fault, that you had absolutely no contributing factors for any of the breakups that you’ve endured? Do you sometimes find yourself yelling at a loved one and you tell yourself that you had every right to make them feel horrible? If any of these apply to you, you are not even honest with yourself. How can you expect the person of your next relationship to be honest to you?
Respect: a word that calls for attention. No one in their right mind would be happy if someone disrespected them. How many of you have spent a night of drinking with friends during the week, woke up the next day with a splitting headache and wanted to or did call into work sick? Did you then tell yourself that you are just fine, you do not drink too much and you have everything under control? When it’s late at night, you’re starving, and about to reach into the fridge for a snack, do you tell yourself that it’s not a big deal if you eat half that pint of ice cream, even though you are on a diet for health reasons? As you take a deep drag off of your cigarette, do you tell yourself that you’ll quit "someday" , that you’re just fine for now and cancer is something that you only need to think about in the future? If any of these apply to you then you do not have complete respect for yourself. And once again, how can you expect a person in a relationship to have show respect?
Loyalty: A key element in any relationship. If we don’t have loyalty from another person, we can not truly feel safe in the relationship. How many of you have worked for a company and declared your loyalty to that company and then gave your two-weeks-notice when a position opened up elsewhere that paid more money? How many of you have never cheated on another person? By this, cheating will be defined by kissing another, have a secret meeting for lunch or dinner, phone calls, or yes, even sex, while in a relationship with anyone. If any of these apply to you, you have not displayed loyalty. And now you are asking for it from someone else?
Physical attraction: A needed component of a healthy relationship. We have instilled in us certain needs that make us attracted or not attracted to another person. If we are in a relationship, we certainly want to feel a high attraction to the other person, which leads to a great sex life and a general feeling of compatibility. What is your perception of yourself? When you glance in a mirror, do you think about the wrinkles you see? When you’re getting dressed, do you try on ten different outfits because you feel that the first nine made you look fat? Do you grimace at the thought of parading around the beach in a bikini because you think that everyone in the world should look "model perfect"? No one can look like a model, except for models! Even then, if you knew the makeup, hair stylists and airbrushing that was involved you would understand that they do not even look like themselves in "real life". If any of the above applies to you, you do not have a good self-image and/or you have low self-esteem. If you are not even attracted to yourself, do you think it’s fair to expect your partner in the relationship to be great looking and be attracted to you? They look at clues that you exude, ie: self-confidence and it helps gauge their opinions of your looks. Start appreciating the unique person that you are.
Lastly, a fun loving, enthusiastic personality. No one in a relationship wants to spend a large amount of time with someone who is boring, dull and unable be fun companions. Do you dread waking up in the morning because you hate your job? Alternatively, do you love your career and concentrate on it so much, leaving very little time for fun in your life? Do you run through your chores at home complaining about the never-ending mess on the floor, laundry that never seems to go away and dishes that seem to appear out of nowhere? Do you go through the food store as fast as possible, no smile on your face and a "get out of my way "expression? If you spend most of your life annoyed at things and you don’t take time out to appreciate life, how can you be a fun partner in a relationship and at the same time expect the other person to be one? Life’s is far from perfect, but to be someone’s "special" love, you need to slow the heck down and realize that having a bad outlook on life is going to get you nowhere.
Honesty, loyalty, respect, physical attraction, and a great personality: do you want these elements in a perspective relationship? If so, ask yourself a very important question. If you cannot have a good relationship with yourself, how can you expect to find one with another person? Visit:
Thursday, August 14, 2008
Movie Reviews and update on my life....
Wow....long time since i update what have i been doing...here goes....
Tue: was the start of the sch for me as monday all tutorials time not yet balloted for it....i FELL ASLEEP in lecture. Ok i was not used to the lectuere blah blah blah all the boring stuffs out from his mouth. But i did a reading on the topics already, so not too bad. When he ends the lecture i still thought he's giving a break time again. Haha....anyway....had 2 lectures on tuesday....really tired....need to get my brain up and cracking again.
Recently alot of student emails coming in organizing activities for nus students and also certification tests to encourgage nus students to upgrade and take more certs before they graduate....one of them is the SUN JAVA certified e-learning programme catered to allow us to take the exams at a cheaper rate....so good... wish i could have the discipline to take it and finish it....next is CCNA certifications for $600 only....i guess with citrep funding only need to pay $400 ba....hopefully i can take that as with a CCNA certificate, things in the IT industry will be lot of easier for us IT people.
Wed: Met Seow @ CWP as he needs to study some chemistry shit so need my O LEVEL textbook lor....poor thing....cos he studying in EEE NTU course....alot of engineering stuffs and 1st year is more science stuff phyics and chem lor....so i loan it to him....met him for lunch at the library cafe....ate chicken thigh....but not v nice....the thigh got a bit blood somemore....er xin man....wouldnt go there eat again....den had a chat with seow also....exchange some experiences i had in my 1st year la....haha...hopefully that helps him....den he suggests we go watch "Money not enough 2"....since i havent watch and nobody to watch with me....so i went lor....we took 215pm show den thruout the show...seow's laughter was the loudest....lolx....so funny....salute jack neo for the high quality/standard of movie....only he can do it...den after the show we went our own ways....dunno when can we have a EI0215 official Gathering again.....everyone's been busy with work,study,problems in life....personal problems....etc.....there's just so many things to be vexed about.....wish all happiness and all smooth sailing in studies,love,money,career,family,friends...etc....
Then it was a cousin gathering dinner @ night. We went to the Mosque street in chinatown as joanne recommends a steamboat which was quite nice and cosy( if not she will treat us chomp chomp next time) haha....overall the ingredients and ambience not bad....even got someone celebrating his bday over there....makes me think about past memories of my bday this year ! pasir ris coastal sands....haha....so fun to have loads of friends gathering together for yr bday....
We order alot of food ar....the prawns....fishballs....dumplings...the crab bun was heavenly....the soup was nice....the chilli sauce we made it ourselves....the usual "guys" in the steamboats... Mr jin zhen gu....Ms Chicken meat....Mrs Pork meat and also some dunno what veggie la...haha....fun to be with the cousins and after that we head over to Kristabelle KTV pub for ktv session as it's walking distance away only....we sang from 9 to 12 ba not really singing till v good....so-so only....the mic also got problem...uncle give attitude.....boo oooo him lor.....after the ktv we had to rush for last train as it's nearly 12 le....luckily for us managed to get the last train back to yishun as it stops at kranji....haha.....
Still remember when after chalet in pasir ris....my frenz from nyp and co will slp in the train like dead pigs and so tired lor....somemore need to head back to yishun....long journey man....cos usually chalet we weren't allowed to slp due to the rule saying : "GO CHALET SLP DEN MIGHT AS WELL GO HOME SLP"...... those were the days....lolx.... i remember yan saying that with lixin....i guess THEY SET the RULES....lolx....but true also lar....go there slp only no fun liaoz.....chalet go do stupid things and play games is the best le.....when will be my next chalet neh.....haha
Thurs: I went to watch "12 Lotus" with joyce and joanne @ AMK Hub as they wanna watch and also since i've got no classes on today ....overall the rating i will give for this is lower than "Money Not Enough 2" ba as it's quite artistic kinda flim....also the movie mainly on singing...alot of parts are unsaid and also singing really makes the movies like a musical lor....but quite sad for the female lead as she had a tough life....as depicted in the song lyrics....12 stages of her life....haiz....i think everyone will have that kind of stage....not all....but some i think...the highs and the lows of life....partly due to the society development and also personality differences attribute to these high/low point of each and everyone's life.
Currently has been struggling with a rough patch....Hopefully my life will take a turn from the low point to the high point ba......i guess....with persistance and hardwork....the silver lining is always not far from you....JIAYOU!!
Tue: was the start of the sch for me as monday all tutorials time not yet balloted for it....i FELL ASLEEP in lecture. Ok i was not used to the lectuere blah blah blah all the boring stuffs out from his mouth. But i did a reading on the topics already, so not too bad. When he ends the lecture i still thought he's giving a break time again. Haha....anyway....had 2 lectures on tuesday....really tired....need to get my brain up and cracking again.
Recently alot of student emails coming in organizing activities for nus students and also certification tests to encourgage nus students to upgrade and take more certs before they graduate....one of them is the SUN JAVA certified e-learning programme catered to allow us to take the exams at a cheaper rate....so good... wish i could have the discipline to take it and finish it....next is CCNA certifications for $600 only....i guess with citrep funding only need to pay $400 ba....hopefully i can take that as with a CCNA certificate, things in the IT industry will be lot of easier for us IT people.
Wed: Met Seow @ CWP as he needs to study some chemistry shit so need my O LEVEL textbook lor....poor thing....cos he studying in EEE NTU course....alot of engineering stuffs and 1st year is more science stuff phyics and chem lor....so i loan it to him....met him for lunch at the library cafe....ate chicken thigh....but not v nice....the thigh got a bit blood somemore....er xin man....wouldnt go there eat again....den had a chat with seow also....exchange some experiences i had in my 1st year la....haha...hopefully that helps him....den he suggests we go watch "Money not enough 2"....since i havent watch and nobody to watch with me....so i went lor....we took 215pm show den thruout the show...seow's laughter was the loudest....lolx....so funny....salute jack neo for the high quality/standard of movie....only he can do it...den after the show we went our own ways....dunno when can we have a EI0215 official Gathering again.....everyone's been busy with work,study,problems in life....personal problems....etc.....there's just so many things to be vexed about.....wish all happiness and all smooth sailing in studies,love,money,career,family,friends...etc....
Then it was a cousin gathering dinner @ night. We went to the Mosque street in chinatown as joanne recommends a steamboat which was quite nice and cosy( if not she will treat us chomp chomp next time) haha....overall the ingredients and ambience not bad....even got someone celebrating his bday over there....makes me think about past memories of my bday this year ! pasir ris coastal sands....haha....so fun to have loads of friends gathering together for yr bday....
We order alot of food ar....the prawns....fishballs....dumplings...the crab bun was heavenly....the soup was nice....the chilli sauce we made it ourselves....the usual "guys" in the steamboats... Mr jin zhen gu....Ms Chicken meat....Mrs Pork meat and also some dunno what veggie la...haha....fun to be with the cousins and after that we head over to Kristabelle KTV pub for ktv session as it's walking distance away only....we sang from 9 to 12 ba not really singing till v good....so-so only....the mic also got problem...uncle give attitude.....boo oooo him lor.....after the ktv we had to rush for last train as it's nearly 12 le....luckily for us managed to get the last train back to yishun as it stops at kranji....haha.....
Still remember when after chalet in pasir ris....my frenz from nyp and co will slp in the train like dead pigs and so tired lor....somemore need to head back to yishun....long journey man....cos usually chalet we weren't allowed to slp due to the rule saying : "GO CHALET SLP DEN MIGHT AS WELL GO HOME SLP"...... those were the days....lolx.... i remember yan saying that with lixin....i guess THEY SET the RULES....lolx....but true also lar....go there slp only no fun liaoz.....chalet go do stupid things and play games is the best le.....when will be my next chalet neh.....haha
Thurs: I went to watch "12 Lotus" with joyce and joanne @ AMK Hub as they wanna watch and also since i've got no classes on today ....overall the rating i will give for this is lower than "Money Not Enough 2" ba as it's quite artistic kinda flim....also the movie mainly on singing...alot of parts are unsaid and also singing really makes the movies like a musical lor....but quite sad for the female lead as she had a tough life....as depicted in the song lyrics....12 stages of her life....haiz....i think everyone will have that kind of stage....not all....but some i think...the highs and the lows of life....partly due to the society development and also personality differences attribute to these high/low point of each and everyone's life.
Currently has been struggling with a rough patch....Hopefully my life will take a turn from the low point to the high point ba......i guess....with persistance and hardwork....the silver lining is always not far from you....JIAYOU!!
Tuesday, August 12, 2008
My New Running Shoes
Proudly Presenting....new member of the asics.....Running Shoe....yeah.... and the last one is request from my nephew zhuzhu to let his pikachu try my new shoes...hahaha
Monday, August 11, 2008
Old & Traditional Way to relieve stress & bone-in-the-neck situations
CRY OUT LOUD!!!!!
I believe that's the best way to relieve one from stress and unhappiness....Bottled up emotions and problems are difficult to say it out.....crying is thus the best way to relieve our load from the shoulder.....tears are bestowed upon us to not only help our clean our precious windows of our soul, it also helps to calm down our emotions and also to have a clearer picture of the stressful and depressing situations....music can also aid in the production of tears in our tear gland located within our eyes and our five senses are activated upon the simulation of the tear gland thru music,thoughts, other scientific factors.
One song i will recommend is Photograph by Nickelback which i found in the album Top 40 singles UK for this week. Quite touching and powerful song which relive my past memories...the good times....the bad times....highly recommended for those who have been wanting to go for a "Search-your-soul" journey....i was touched by this song seriously....
I believe that's the best way to relieve one from stress and unhappiness....Bottled up emotions and problems are difficult to say it out.....crying is thus the best way to relieve our load from the shoulder.....tears are bestowed upon us to not only help our clean our precious windows of our soul, it also helps to calm down our emotions and also to have a clearer picture of the stressful and depressing situations....music can also aid in the production of tears in our tear gland located within our eyes and our five senses are activated upon the simulation of the tear gland thru music,thoughts, other scientific factors.
One song i will recommend is Photograph by Nickelback which i found in the album Top 40 singles UK for this week. Quite touching and powerful song which relive my past memories...the good times....the bad times....highly recommended for those who have been wanting to go for a "Search-your-soul" journey....i was touched by this song seriously....
Saturday, August 9, 2008
Finally....the break before the School Starts......
Well...for those who don't know....i've already been working part time for at least 3 weeks straight....w/o any rest and i even work on sat n sunday...damn tired....i even overslept on one of the day i was supposed to work.....felt so apologetic towards my colleague as that day turns out to be a rough day and all of them had a tough time going....really paiseh....really recently....i was drained out...physically and mentally.....phsically as in i went for soccer on monday and also running on tuesday plus swimming on wednesday......well i felt i needed it as i've been real lazy for a long long time....just need some challenges....SERIOUSLY in life.....without challenges and dreams....all talk is nothing...i shall set my goals on a few things before the end of this year.....these shall keep me going on the pursue of my dreams/goals.....
Recently really felt that.....life is so empty.....so senseless and without any guiding directions....it's like.....everything have to DIY....these is no one to give u suggestions in life.....where to go....what to do....what to buy....what to eat....it's all in the guy up there(our brain).... seriously i haven't been using my brain....to fulfil man's most basic needs/wants....the only thing that keep human thinking and improving are unattainable dreams....just like one of the game i'm playing...FF7 - Crisis Core....there's a part which the male lead was asked what he wants to be.....and he replied....."I want to be a Hero.."..... the higher management and his mentor replied saying "unattainable dreams are the best kind" --> which i think is true.....dreams without any mark leaves people to keep going and never give up hope....human is known for creating miracles....success and developements isn't it?
I will get used to life this way....i will set my time/goals and pursue my dream....maybe i should find one day....go for a soul-seeking journey to find out what do i really want in my life.....it's my life....i shall decide how i want it to be.....maybe....i have been too dependent and thus felt such a lost in life....is really....depressing...i will move on....just like what people always says
"THE WORLD DOESN'T STOPS FOR YOU.....IT WILL STILL KEEP ON MOVING/TURNING" .....
Not Forgetting....nice fireworks last night....Happy Birthday Singapore....
Recently really felt that.....life is so empty.....so senseless and without any guiding directions....it's like.....everything have to DIY....these is no one to give u suggestions in life.....where to go....what to do....what to buy....what to eat....it's all in the guy up there(our brain).... seriously i haven't been using my brain....to fulfil man's most basic needs/wants....the only thing that keep human thinking and improving are unattainable dreams....just like one of the game i'm playing...FF7 - Crisis Core....there's a part which the male lead was asked what he wants to be.....and he replied....."I want to be a Hero.."..... the higher management and his mentor replied saying "unattainable dreams are the best kind" --> which i think is true.....dreams without any mark leaves people to keep going and never give up hope....human is known for creating miracles....success and developements isn't it?
I will get used to life this way....i will set my time/goals and pursue my dream....maybe i should find one day....go for a soul-seeking journey to find out what do i really want in my life.....it's my life....i shall decide how i want it to be.....maybe....i have been too dependent and thus felt such a lost in life....is really....depressing...i will move on....just like what people always says
"THE WORLD DOESN'T STOPS FOR YOU.....IT WILL STILL KEEP ON MOVING/TURNING" .....
Not Forgetting....nice fireworks last night....Happy Birthday Singapore....
Wednesday, August 6, 2008
Monday, August 4, 2008
How to Keep a relationship GOING/GROWING ???
Have any1 of you all reading the blog post....ever felt like this before....i read this from a magazine and it was about this couple....who were married for several years....and they knew each other inside out......bad habits.....personal hygience.....character....pattern....etc.....until....they felt that....actually....that kinda firework feeling is not there already....also what they termed it as chemistry...i suppose....(why not physics or biology...)
Anyway....both of them grew sick of each other and opt to be friends instead.....because everything they have been doing in the past few years were really like they've been frenz only all along....they dun kiss....dun hug.....dun do intimate stuffs....i mean...it's amazing and scary......someone you thought you knew....actually is a total stranger....or..."just a friend".....that kinda feeling is scary....the mere thought of it gives me the gitters.....well....sometimes i felt that....lovers....do they really need surprises everytime??? Do they really love each other everyday....minute....second....thinking of each other at all times.....misses each other frequently....which i think is mostly for those "Honeymoon" period of courtship.....which is like the early stages of a relationship....many couples break up because they knew too well of their spouse and grew sick of them already....So how/what shall we do to keep the relationship going and growing???
Found this interesting article in the website: http://www.abroadbuzz.com/articles/Relationship_Advice_for_People.asp
"7 ways to Keep Your Relationships Alive and Growing"
by Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship Coaches
The rules for relationships don't change, no matter what type they are. If there's any relationship advice that we'd give to create a great relationship, it's to begin focusing on your relationship. Focusing on your relationship can come in many forms and here are 7 simple suggestions to help you with your personal growth in this area:
1. If you want to keep your relationship alive and growing, you have to really want to keep it that way. You have to decide that the relationship is important in your life and give it the time and attention it needs. As we've said before, it doesn't matter what you say or intend about your relationship. Your actions are what speak the loudest.
Tip: Look at your actions in your relationship and make sure that they are congruent with what you say your intentions are. Are you spending enough time and energy on the relationship?
2. Focus on what you like and love about the person instead of what you don't like or gets on your nerves. We truly do get more of what we focus on. If you want to prevent infidelity, flirting with others outside the relationship, affairs, and even divorce and a relationship breakup, begin focusing on the positive in your relationship and not the negative.
Tip: Stop when you start to criticize this person, with words or even in your mind. Turn your thinking to what you like about the person and begin to see how your relationship gets better.
3. Kindness matters in relationships, so be kind. Very often, people in relationships treat the people closest to them worse than they treat acquaintances or even total strangers. Several years ago we attended a presentation by Wayne Dyer and in it, he told us that if you are choosing whether to be "right" or to be kind, always choose kindness. We think that's great advice.
Tip: This week, do something kind for someone in your life that you wouldn't normally do and without expectation of anything in return.
4. Show appreciation for others and what they mean to you. You may be thinking that you need to say "thank you" and just haven't taken the time or energy to do it. We urge you to make a habit of expressing appreciation. If you do, we think you'll find your relationships to be filled with much more happiness and joy.
Tip: Look at what someone special does for you or what they mean to you and say a word of appreciation about it to them. It might be something as simple as "I like your smile" or "Thank you for cooking dinner last night."
5. Ask for what you want. Most people expect the people who are in relationship with them to be mind readers. If you're expecting others to be psychics, you're in for a painful ride if you're in relationship with them. If you want your needs to be met, you have to tell people what these needs are. You also have to tell them in a way that they can hear them. Sometimes this takes courage, but we know that when you clearly ask for what you want, you bypass assumptions, resentments and miscommunications.
Tip: What desire have you been putting off communicating to another person? Whether it's a desire to have more "dates" alone, more romance, more help around the house, a promotion at work, or a dinner date with a friend, the only way you'll get any of these things is to ask.
6. Listen without judging or getting defensive. Be open to the possibility that someone else's opinion or way of doing things may be just as valid or important as yours. Just because their way is different, doesn't make them or you wrong. If you're constantly judging, being defensive and building walls, you're not open to possibilities and to the love that is possible between two people.
Tip: Choose someone who always seems to push your "buttons" and makes you angry or you always judge. During one conversation, just listen to this person without judging them with words or even in your mind. What did you discover?
7. Be willing to risk opening your heart and letting other people in. We can be in a relationship for many years and still not allow another person to penetrate our walls of protection. If you want to have relationships that are alive and growing, being willing to risk is a prerequisite.
Tip: Examine what walls you've built to keep others out. It might be that you "close down" and retreat when there's conflict between the two of you. It might be that you are afraid to ask for what you want. We invite you to choose one relationship where you are fearful or get triggered easily and exercise the courage to take a risk and say one thing that is real and true for you to this person.
Anyway....both of them grew sick of each other and opt to be friends instead.....because everything they have been doing in the past few years were really like they've been frenz only all along....they dun kiss....dun hug.....dun do intimate stuffs....i mean...it's amazing and scary......someone you thought you knew....actually is a total stranger....or..."just a friend".....that kinda feeling is scary....the mere thought of it gives me the gitters.....well....sometimes i felt that....lovers....do they really need surprises everytime??? Do they really love each other everyday....minute....second....thinking of each other at all times.....misses each other frequently....which i think is mostly for those "Honeymoon" period of courtship.....which is like the early stages of a relationship....many couples break up because they knew too well of their spouse and grew sick of them already....So how/what shall we do to keep the relationship going and growing???
Found this interesting article in the website: http://www.abroadbuzz.com/articles/Relationship_Advice_for_People.asp
"7 ways to Keep Your Relationships Alive and Growing"
by Susie and Otto Collins, Relationship Coaches
The rules for relationships don't change, no matter what type they are. If there's any relationship advice that we'd give to create a great relationship, it's to begin focusing on your relationship. Focusing on your relationship can come in many forms and here are 7 simple suggestions to help you with your personal growth in this area:
1. If you want to keep your relationship alive and growing, you have to really want to keep it that way. You have to decide that the relationship is important in your life and give it the time and attention it needs. As we've said before, it doesn't matter what you say or intend about your relationship. Your actions are what speak the loudest.
Tip: Look at your actions in your relationship and make sure that they are congruent with what you say your intentions are. Are you spending enough time and energy on the relationship?
2. Focus on what you like and love about the person instead of what you don't like or gets on your nerves. We truly do get more of what we focus on. If you want to prevent infidelity, flirting with others outside the relationship, affairs, and even divorce and a relationship breakup, begin focusing on the positive in your relationship and not the negative.
Tip: Stop when you start to criticize this person, with words or even in your mind. Turn your thinking to what you like about the person and begin to see how your relationship gets better.
3. Kindness matters in relationships, so be kind. Very often, people in relationships treat the people closest to them worse than they treat acquaintances or even total strangers. Several years ago we attended a presentation by Wayne Dyer and in it, he told us that if you are choosing whether to be "right" or to be kind, always choose kindness. We think that's great advice.
Tip: This week, do something kind for someone in your life that you wouldn't normally do and without expectation of anything in return.
4. Show appreciation for others and what they mean to you. You may be thinking that you need to say "thank you" and just haven't taken the time or energy to do it. We urge you to make a habit of expressing appreciation. If you do, we think you'll find your relationships to be filled with much more happiness and joy.
Tip: Look at what someone special does for you or what they mean to you and say a word of appreciation about it to them. It might be something as simple as "I like your smile" or "Thank you for cooking dinner last night."
5. Ask for what you want. Most people expect the people who are in relationship with them to be mind readers. If you're expecting others to be psychics, you're in for a painful ride if you're in relationship with them. If you want your needs to be met, you have to tell people what these needs are. You also have to tell them in a way that they can hear them. Sometimes this takes courage, but we know that when you clearly ask for what you want, you bypass assumptions, resentments and miscommunications.
Tip: What desire have you been putting off communicating to another person? Whether it's a desire to have more "dates" alone, more romance, more help around the house, a promotion at work, or a dinner date with a friend, the only way you'll get any of these things is to ask.
6. Listen without judging or getting defensive. Be open to the possibility that someone else's opinion or way of doing things may be just as valid or important as yours. Just because their way is different, doesn't make them or you wrong. If you're constantly judging, being defensive and building walls, you're not open to possibilities and to the love that is possible between two people.
Tip: Choose someone who always seems to push your "buttons" and makes you angry or you always judge. During one conversation, just listen to this person without judging them with words or even in your mind. What did you discover?
7. Be willing to risk opening your heart and letting other people in. We can be in a relationship for many years and still not allow another person to penetrate our walls of protection. If you want to have relationships that are alive and growing, being willing to risk is a prerequisite.
Tip: Examine what walls you've built to keep others out. It might be that you "close down" and retreat when there's conflict between the two of you. It might be that you are afraid to ask for what you want. We invite you to choose one relationship where you are fearful or get triggered easily and exercise the courage to take a risk and say one thing that is real and true for you to this person.
Saturday, August 2, 2008
Mario Kart IS BACK !!!
Haha...finally i found it.....tat stupid mario is hiding behind the TV closet all along.....damn it.....no wonder i can't find it.....now i can start to warm up my Nintendo Wii again....HAH!
Anyway....all thanks to my bro and mum....their never-give-up attitude and effort made all these possible....so happy....lolx.......Hopefully can save more $$$ to buy Wii Fit......estimated budget around $200 ba....the device plus the game.....most ultimate game will be Guitar Hero 3!!!! Guitar set plus game costs around $150......feeling broke man....haha....but happy yot be able to play my favourite game on my fav console...WII!!!!!! hahaha.....so happy....later going home (now @ work so quiet) to play my WII.....Time for some real action and Drifting....you know what's a DK....means Drift King.....i'm almost that level in Mario Kart.....any Challenges??? heehee... :P